My wife and I have loved visiting swinger spots across the country and meeting all of the fun and sexy people. We were saddened by the lack of Delaware swinger clubs and Delaware swinger resorts. There are still some options available for Delaware swingers.
There are no Delaware swinger clubs or Delaware swinger resorts but there are still some options. Delaware swingers live very close to some swinger spots in nearby states so a short trip can get you to a great spot. There are also some great online options to meet other swingers.
So let’s take a look at the options available to Delaware swingers. Where they can go to find swinger clubs, the best swinger resort options, how to meet swingers in Delaware, and a section on dealing with male swinger insecurities.
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Top Delaware Swinger Club Options
There are no Delaware swinger clubs that are currently open. But Delaware swingers should not give up on experiencing all that these clubs have to offer.
Swinger clubs are nightclubs with special amenities for those involved in the swinger lifestyle. These clubs usually have playrooms for swingers to have on-site play with other swingers. You can meet others in the lifestyle and get to sexually interact with them right there.
Most swinger clubs are BYOB due to liquor licensing restrictions for this type of club. The other amenities at swinger clubs vary quite a bit but most have dancefloors, stripper poles, and lounges. Some clubs have BDSM dungeons, glory holes, mixer events, hot tubs, and more.
The big thing that swinger clubs have is some of the best people that you will meet anywhere. People in the swinger lifestyle are some of the friendliest and most open-minded people that you will find anywhere.
If you are new to the swinger lifestyle, you may be a little worried about being overwhelmed when you visit a swinger club. There is no need to worry as no one is going to pressure you at all to do anything at these places.
You can go to just take a look around and find out what the whole swinger lifestyle is about. You may see some sexually charged naked people especially if you go in the playrooms, but no one is going to be grabbing you or making you feel like you have to do anything.
You will find a number of swinger clubs that are fairly close to Delaware. Some of the neighboring states have incredible swinger clubs. You can check out our articles on the swinger clubs in Maryland, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey for more details on these clubs.
We highly recommend checking out Saints & Sinners NE Philly and Saints & Sinners Atlantic City. Both of these clubs would offer the Delaware swinger a good taste of the swinger lifestyle.
Top Delaware Swinger Resort Options
We absolutely love swinger resort and they are our favorite places to visit. There is nothing like hanging out naked in a hot tub with a bunch of other exciting swingers.
Unfortunately, there are no Delaware swinger resorts but there are still some options available. If you are interested in the swinger lifestyle, you really have to spend some time at a swinger resort.
These resorts are clothing-optional meaning that you can be naked or fully dressed while you are there. Most Delaware swingers go naked when at these swinger resorts but no one is made to feel like they have to do so.
The swinger resorts tend to be in warm weather areas for obvious reasons. It really helps to be in a tropical area when trying to have fun naked.
These resorts have overnight accommodations, hot tubs, pools, nightclubs, playrooms, tiki bars, and more. We just love the atmosphere of hanging out naked all day, playing when we want to, and being able to go back to our rooms either by ourselves or with companionship when ready.
The easiest and least expensive way for Delaware swingers to experience a swinger resort is to hop onto a flight to Florida. These flights are usually fairly inexpensive and frequent. There are great swinger resorts near Orlando, Tampa, and Miami.
To see what is available in Florida for the Delaware swinger check out Florida Swinger Resorts: Fun play in the sun.
If you really want to have the ultimate swinger resort experience, we highly recommend that you check out Hedonism in Jamaica. This is our all-time favorite swinger resort experience.
Delaware Swinger Group Options
Swinger groups are organizations that do not have a permanent location but put on swinger events at hotels, houses, or clubs that they temporarily take over. These events can be incredibly fun and are worth checking out.
Unfortunately, there are no Delaware swinger groups but there are some great options in nearby Maryland, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey
Meeting Up With Delaware Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that Delaware swingers use to meet up with other swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). These sites are even more important to Delaware swingers due to the lack of local swinger clubs and resorts.
Delaware swingers can use these sites to help make swinger connections in a couple of ways. We use these websites to make connections before traveling for a swinger event. This helps to increase our chances of finding a nice compatible couple when we go to the resort or club.
The other way is to use the sites to make connections with individual Delaware swinger couples that you can meet one on one locally. We have done this many times and have had some great fun doing this. Remember to be smart and always meet in public spots and be smart but with a little common sense, you will meet some incredible swingers.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for club and resort events. This is the website where Delaware swingers can meet other swingers at any swinger club or resort that you might visit. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.
This is great when you are traveling because when you show up you will already know some other swingers. This website has club listings that let you list yourself as going to a club, resort, or event. You can also see who else has signed up as going.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.
This is a great website to meet local Delaware swingers to meet up right in the state.
Important Note To Male Delaware Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples, the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
1. Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
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Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.