My wife and I are just back from our trip to Hedo and we are excited to share our Hedonism II review with everyone. We had a great time and you must put this resort on your to-do list. We are glad to share our Hedonism II experience with everyone and offer up what tips we found.
Hedonism II (Hedo) is an all-inclusive resort in Negril, Jamaica that caters to the swinger lifestyle crowd. This resort is not for the newbie swinger as it is an intense dive into the swinger experience. If you know what you are getting into, you can have the time of your life visiting this resort.
So now let’s take a look at what the Hedonism II experience is like. We will look into the Hedonism II sex scene, the Hedonism II playroom, and what kind of play we experienced. If you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note To Male Hedonism Swingers section.
Our Overall Hedonism II Experience
Hedonism II is the ultimate couple’s swinger lifestyle resort. If you are an active swinger lifestyle couple, then this is the best place to visit. We had more lifestyle fun in one week at Hedo than in a whole year outside of Hedo.
First of all, this is an all-inclusive resort located in Negril, Jamaica. Everything here is covered here for one fee. You do not pay for meals, alcohol, or even tips. This makes the trip much more reasonably priced than you might think.
As far as overall non-swinger resort quality goes, we found that Hedo was about average when compared with vanilla (non-swinger) all-inclusive resorts. The rooms, meals, and facilities were of average quality. But let’s face it, this is not why people go to Hedo.
People go to Hedonism II for the swinger lifestyle experience, which is where they excel. You will never experience a better non-stop sexual experience than what you will at Hedo.
My wife and I had sexual experiences at Hedo that we have never had anywhere else. We are not even a real outgoing couple in person. But being at Hedo makes it so easy to meet other couples and to play with those couples once you meet.
Our trip to Hedonism II allowed us to have several swinger experiences. During our week there we experienced numerous episodes of touching and kissing other couples, several soft swaps, and one full swap without even trying hard.
My favorite experience at Hedonism II sounds like a made-up story but I swear it is true. I had three women line up to give me blowjobs. This was the experience of a lifetime for me and would never happen anywhere except for Hedo. I will explain more of this later on.
Continue reading in the sections below to find out more about our Hedonism II sex experience and how this resort helps to make this all happen.
The Hedonism II Sex Scene
We found that almost all of the sexual activity at Hedonism II happens in three different spots. Those spots were at the nude pool, the Hedonism II playrooms, and in the individual rooms.
The pool is the easiest place to meet people, the playroom is the best sure shot to get some action, and the rooms are the best place to go if you are going to have some serious action.
As I will detail below, Hedonism II is the best spot for a couple’s swinging action. The one thing that Hedonism II does not have is a lot of single men. It is specifically geared towards couples so if adding another man is a must then this may not be the best spot.
With that being said, it is not that hard to find some men from visiting couples that are on the prowl for some MFM action with another couple.
The Hedonism II Nude Pool
The nude pool at Hedo is a great sexually charged place to meet active swinger couples. Almost everyone here is looking for the same thing. They are looking to meet other couples and try new things. This is a great opportunity to meet a bunch of like-minded people.
There are four main components of what I will refer to as the nude pool. First is the main nude pool. This is the main area to meet other couples and play Hedo games put on by the staff. This area has a swim-up bar and was kept at around a comfortable 85 degrees.
Additionally, there was what is referred to as the nude hot tub. This was not as hot as what you usually find with hot tubs. I would estimate that it was kept at around 90 degrees. It is more like a conversation pool with water jets.
The other two areas are the bar and the grill. The bar is a swim-up bar from the nude poolside and a walk-up bar on the other side. There is also a grill here with a decent menu (including some excellent pizza). The drinks and food are part of the all-included plan at Hedonism II.
There are several things that you should think about to understand how wild the nude pool at Hedo can be. First of all, everyone at the pool is at Hedo to have a wild swinging time. Let’s face it, no one is coming to Hedo to catch up on their reading list. They are coming to hook up and play.
Additionally, there is nudity and alcohol. Everyone at the nude pool is required to be completely nude and everyone here has access to free drinks. The swim-up bar at the nude pool was awesome. This is a great combination that leads to a lot of sex.
The Nude Pool in the DayTime
We would spend most of our afternoons at the nude pool where we would have the opportunity to meet a lot of other couples. The awesome Hedo staff would have games and music to help people mingle at the pool. These new friends would pay off in the evening.
We did not have a lot of actual sexual action during the daytime. But this is where you make the connections and meet the people that your can hook up with later in the evening. Don’t be afraid to talk to people.
The afternoon nude pool fun would be followed by a late afternoon nap, a fabulous meal at one of the resort-included resort restaurants, and a little of the sexy nightly show in the main hall. Around 11 pm we would get back to the nude pool and that is when the action would start.
The Nude Pool at Night
The nights at the nude pool were wild and fun. Just like during the daytime, the pool (and the nearby jacuzzi) are full of beautiful naked people that are for the most part interested in playing with other couples.
We would show up at the nude pool and renew conversations with couples that we had met during the day. The standard greeting here between even new friends was a hug and a kiss. As the night would wear on there would typically become a lot more touching that would become part of the conversation.
We are not the best meet-and-greet type of swingers but we found it so easy to hook up with couples here at Hedonism II. A great thing about the Hedonism II experience is that after investing all the time and money to get here, everyone is looking to have some fun playing. Nobody wants to go home with no new experiences.
My favorite Hedonism II sex experience happened here at the nude pool. We had spent some time with another couple on and off during the week. At one point out of the blue, she told me to hop up on the side of the pool.
I immediately followed her directions and she started to perform oral sex on me. While I was enjoying this experience, my wife was sitting on the side of the pool doing some touching with this lady’s husband. They hear a couple of other women commenting about the blowjob.
When they hear this, my wife and the other guy tell these women that they should go investigate and demonstrate their skills. The two women come over and line up to perform on me as well. In a matter of a few minutes, I had three women performing oral sex on me.
I am not the most handsome man in the world and this type of experience would only happen to someone like me at Hedo.
We messed around with a few more couples during our stay at the nude pool but when things became a little more serious we would go to the playrooms or the actual resort rooms.
The nude pool is an essential part of the Hedonism II sex scene in that this is where almost everything gets started.
The Hedonism II Playrooms
Two different playrooms were part of the Hedonism II experience. The main playroom is known as the Romping Shop Playroom and there is an additional smaller playroom located near the nude pool. The type of action was a little different at each.
The Romping Shop Playroom Hedonism II experience
The Romping Shop Playroom is the main Hedonism II playroom. This adult playroom is named after a Jamaican Dancehall Song and is not a store as I first thought. This playroom has two main areas.
The first area is an open courtyard under the sky. They place several mattresses on the floor of this area. You get to fool around under the stars.
The second area is an enclosed room with several regular beds and a sex swing. This room tended to have more couples that were interested in hooking up with other couples in the playroom.
We went to this playroom a couple of times during our Hedonism II experience. One time we went with a couple that we had met at the nude pool. We went to the open courtyard area and had a soft swap under the open sky.
I have to say that this was an incredibly stimulating experience. Think about it. You are under the beautiful Jamaican night sky watching someone performing oral sex on your wife while you get to enjoy yourself at the same time. Another only at Hedonism II sex experience.
On another occasion, we just hung out in the inside playroom area for a while watching other couples and fooling around a little ourselves. This eventually led to an invite by another couple to join in. We had seen this couple around a couple of times but had not met them.
We had a great time with them. We did a soft swap and then eventually had some side-by-side play. My wife loves this type of stuff.
Couples are coming in and out of this playroom all night long. If you hang out here and just show some interest, you will eventually get an invite to play. People are coming here because they want to put on a show or find someone to join so just enjoy yourself.
The Nude Pool Playroom
The nude pool has a small Hedonism II playroom right next to the hot tub area. This is a little two-bed playroom that sees plenty of Hedonism II sex action during the night. Let’s face it, the pool is great for some touching and flirting but not always the best place for actual play especially if you want to see what is going on.
On a couple of occasions, we used this playroom so that we could have a quick swap right at the pool area. To be honest this is a great Hedonism II sex experience. Meet at the pool, strike up a conversation, flirt a little, touch a little, go to the poolside playroom, have a little action, and then back to the pool.
This was so much fun and just happens so casually and easily. Even if you struggle with meeting people, it is easy to put together. It seemed like all you had to do was say “hi” and everything would progress from there with minimal effort.
Hedonism II Sex in the Rooms
If you are looking for a little privacy in your Hedonism II experience, then there are always the actual rooms. For some reason, my wife doesn’t like the full swap in public areas so this is where the rooms come in handy.
Any of the rooms on the nude side of the resort are fairly close to the nude pool. So it is just a couple of minutes to get there if things start to get going and you need to go there.
We took a real liking to one of the couples that we had a soft swap with and decided that we wanted to have a full swap with them. We went back to our room and just like that we had some privacy.
The standard rooms have a king-sized bed that is big enough for some side-by-side play. Additionally, there is the window seat which you can use if you want a little separation from the action on the bed. I found the window seat to be just the right height for some fun.
Other Activities at Hedonism II
A big part of the Hedonism II experience is the sexy night shows in the main hall. Every night after dinner, there is always some sort of show that gets the sexual vibe going.
Most of the shows, involve the incredibly sexy Hedonism II dancers. These local dancers just put off an incredible Hedonism II sex vibe. They have all the moves that just make you wonder about other things that they could do.
In addition to the dancers, the Hedonism II experience includes several special events. While we were there, we saw the stunning models from the Black Tape Project put on a show. The young women were around the resort all week and kind of just got the juices flowing if you know what I mean.
Additionally, there are special events like costume contests and other fun shows. These shows just help everyone get in the mood for the Hedonism II sex experience.
Hedonism II Review Recap
I hope that our Hedonism II review helped you to understand why this place is a swinger lifestyle paradise. It is not the place for your first swinger experience as it is a full immersive vacation in the swinger lifestyle.
But if you know that you and your partner are into swinging, then you must make the trip to Hedonism II. This is just the most fun that you can have. You will see things and experience things that you never thought possible.
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Places Similar to Hedonism II
Several resorts are similar to Hedonism II but none of them are of the same quality. However, these resorts are of high quality and can be exceptionally fun. They can also sometimes be done on a smaller budget, especially if going for fewer days.
Many of the best of these resorts are located in Florida. This gives some advantages because of the Florida weather, the ease of traveling to Florida (numerous flights from almost anywhere in the Eastern and Central USA), and the cost of travel (most discount airlines have numerous flights to Florida).
We have found that the best swinger activity outside of Hedonism II can be found at these resorts.
- The Rooftop Resort – Hollywood Beach, Florida
- The Caliente, Land O Lakes, Florida
- Paradise Lakes, Lutz, Florida
- Secrets Hideaway, Kissimmee, Florida
- Temptation Grand Miches, Dominican Republic
Important Note To Men Going Hedonism II
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples, the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
There were three main issues that I had to deal with so that I could enjoy the swinger life and the Hedonism II experience.
Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
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Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.