My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country like the one in Maine. And that leads to the question, what is available for Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger resorts?
In general, there are limited options available for regular Maine Swinger Clubs and Maine Swinger Resorts but there are some slightly different options and a very active scene for Maine Swinger House Parties. When you add in some online meeting options, Maine can be a fun swinger spot.
So let’s take a look at what is available for Maine swingers. The few available places, the groups that put on events in the area, and some internet social group options. Additionally, if you are a man who is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note to Male Maine Swingers section.
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Maine Swinger Clubs
There are no regularly open Maine swinger clubs however there are still some venues to get your swinger fun. Swinger clubs have dedicated venues that they use on a consistent basis. This means a permanent location that usually has a BYOB bar, dancefloor, adult playrooms, and other amenities.
For Maine swingers, the closest option for a regular swinger club is going to be Sinz (you can read our full Club Sinz review here) which is located in Salisbury, Massachusetts which is less than a half hour from the Maine border.
There are additional options in Massachusetts and Rhode Island including the highly-rated Electricity Social Club. These clubs are not too far from southern Maine and are definitely worth the trip for Maine swingers to check out.
There is one spot in Maine that I am going to classify as a Maine Swinger Club but mostly because I do not know what else to classify it as. That spot is Tranquility Clothing Optional Camping Retreat and it is a little different but definitely a swinger spot.
Additionally, I recommend you check out the Maine Swinger House Parties as Maine does have a few regular house parties that are well-run and have a Maine Swinger Club vibe to them. Most list their events on SLS (SwingLifestyle) which is the best site for finding swinger events in Maine.
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Tranquility Clothing Optional Camping Retreat
625 Head Tide Rd,
Whitefield, ME 04353
Phone: (207) 500-3187
Tranquility is a Maine Swinger spot that is hard to define. It is a clothing-optional camping area with swinger playroom areas. It is very popular with a lot of Maine Swingers but is extremely rustic and will not be the spot for many swingers.
First of all, the thing that we did not like about Tranquility is that there is no running water, electricity, or bathrooms. They do have porta-potties and the playroom area is a permanent structure. The camping areas are primitive campsites in a field. This did not work for us but if you are ok with roughing it a little, you might enjoy a trip to Tranquility.
Tranquility is open during the summer months and will usually draw a pretty good crowd on the weekends. The property is clothing optional once you get down by the camping and playroom area.
The actual location is at the end of a long dirt driveway that leads to Tranquility. There is plenty of parking and the property is nice looking with the camping areas in a large field area. The property has river frontage and many swingers will take a skinny dip in the river.
The playroom area is located in an old converted church that has been set up for some swinger fun. There is a St. Andrews Cross and some beds to play on located in this area.
A summertime visit to Tranquility on the weekend will let you meet a lot of Maine Swingers and you will see a lot of nude swingers. The crowd here tends to be very friendly and outgoing and you can meet all kinds of interesting people here.
As I said, it was not for us but many other swingers love this place and frequent it often. There is a donation expected when you visit Tranquility and you can call them to get the current rates. The last time we went, it was $15 per person for the day fee at Tranquility.
Maine Swinger Resorts
We classify a swinger resort as a swinger spot that has overnight accommodations in addition to swinger amenities like clothing-optional pools, clothing-optional hot tubs, and sexual playroom areas.
In the Maine swinger resorts category, there is amazingly a spot that loosely fits the resort classification. This spot known as the Richmond Sauna is just barely in this category because it is not truly a resort and not truly a swinger spot.
If you are interested in checking out a swinger resort, the easiest way for Maine swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the Florida swinger resorts. It is easy to grab a low-cost flight to the Tampa area to check out Caliente. If you feel more adventurous, plan a full vacation to Hedonism.
Richmond Corner Sauna
81 Dingley Rd,
Richmond, ME 04357
(207) 737-4752
https://saunamaine.com/
Mon-Sun: 6 pm to 10 pm
This spot is no longer geared towards the swinger lifestyle and is more of a naturist clothing-optional spot but a lot of Maine swingers still go there and you can still make some connections there. Public sexual acts are no longer allowed in any open areas which limits you to the private saunas which are rather hot (as they should be).
You can use this as a great meetup spot for swingers that you meet online as a public and safe spot that promotes nudity. We have used this spot to meet up with a few Maine Swingers that we have met on AFF (Adult Friend Finder)
The Richmond sauna is a clothing-optional bed and breakfast. This spot has a sunning lawn for nude tanning and soaking up the sun. This location also has a clothing-optional indoor heated pool and a clothing-optional hot tub. The main attraction of the location is the Finnish saunas.
I put the Richmond sauna in the resort category because it has overnight rooms available and it has amenities like a clothing-optional pool, hot tub, and saunas.
This is a nice rustic location that may not appeal to those who are into a new and shiny look. Things are kept clean and nice but you will not confuse this with a five-star hotel. Some of the floors in the actual sauna area are concrete and it has that down-at-camp feel.
That being said this is the best nudist spot that you will find in Maine. It is open year-round which is quite an accomplishment in Maine. You will find this to be an easy spot to begin your nudist experience.
The lawn and pool are open during the daytime for only a $15 fee. The evening sauna, hot tub, and pool are available at $50 per person. Overnight rooms are available starting at $140 per night.
I really recommend that anyone in Maine or visiting Maine should check out this location. The people are friendly and it is a real slice of Maine.
Maine Swinger House Parties and Maine Swinger Groups
A great alternative to Maine Swinger Clubs and Maine Swinger Resorts is the Maine Swinger Groups. Unfortunately, these groups have become less active in the Covid era but seem to be showing some signs of life recently.
These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or take over whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on these events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.
If you want to connect with other swinger couples, these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.
Club Passion House Parties
Otisfield, ME
This is our favorite swinger party event in Maine. This is a swinger house party that is held every couple of months and is some great sexy fun. The parties here draw a good crowd of the sexiest swingers in Maine. They have great music, snacks, a playroom, dancing, an outside fire pit, and more.
This fun party is open to Maine Swinger Couples and a limited number of single men and single ladies.
The couple that puts on this event is just great and it seems that everyone that goes has a good time. Usually, each event has a fun theme that adds to the fun. These events are our #1 swinger events held in Maine. They have events every couple of months and they are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle)
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Seacoast Swinger Party
Near Kittery Maine
This is another Maine Swinger House Party that can be a lot of fun. They usually hold their parties every couple of weeks. They have meeting areas, playrooms, a St. Andrews Cross, a MotorBunny, a male glory hole, and a female glory hole.
We have tried this party out a couple of times and had a great time. They draw a great crowd and do fun icebreaking games at the beginning of the party to help everyone get in the mood and meet each other.
The only issue we have with this party is of no fault of the great couple that put it on. There is limited parking at the house so you often have to carpool to the party. The hosts help coordinate this and there are offsite spots to park and the hosts will shuttle you back to your car whenever you are ready to leave. This small issue keeps us from ranking it higher but it is not really a big deal
This house party is open to couples, single females, and a limited number of single men. This is another Maine Swinger House Party that lists all of its events along with sign-up information on SLS (SwingLifestyle)
Nooner’s Parties
YORK, ME
https://noonersclub.com/
This Maine swinger group lists its location as being in southern Maine though most of its events are held just across the border in Portsmouth, NH. Most of their events are held in hotel rooms. These are not complete hotel takeovers instead they are held in one or more rooms at a local hotel.
Their events are geared mostly towards couples and you must be a member of SLS (SwingLifestyle) to attend. Additionally, all of their events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle). In general, they have an event about once a month.
Maine Swingers
Houlton, ME
https://maineswingers.net/
Currently, this group seems to be completely inactive. Unfortunately, a lot of groups became inactive during Covid.
Meeting Up With Maine Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that Maine swingers use to meet up with other local swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). We use these sites to meet the couples that we hook up with at the swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and sometimes just on our own.
These sites become even more important in a rural state like Maine. When there are few clubs or other outlets for swinger activities, it becomes even more essential to use sites like these to hook up with fellow Maine swingers.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for Maine swingers. This is the website where Maine Swinger House Parties and Maine Swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members who are going to these events ahead of time.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers who will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one-on-one swinger dates outside of events.
Important Note To Male Maine Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples, the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
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Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.