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Maine Swinger Clubs and Swinger Resorts: Is there any swinger fun in Vacationland?

Maine swinger clubs and swinger resorts

My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country and have been trying to compile a state-by-state guide to the best swinger spots.

And that leads to the question, what is available for Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger resorts?

In general, there are very limited options available for Maine swingers. There are no Maine swinger clubs but there is what some might consider a Maine swinger resort. There are also some Maine swinger group options available so do not give up on having some swinger play in Vacationland.

So let’s take a look at what is available for Maine swingers. The few places that are available, the groups that put on events in the area, and some internet social group options. Additionally, if you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Men’s Swinger Concerns section.

Maine Swinger Clubs, Swinger Resorts, and Other Options

Swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and swinger groups all provide sites for people involved in the swinger lifestyle to meet up. If you are involved in the swinger lifestyle or even curious about it, these places can be great fun.

The swinger lifestyle that these places promote is the open sexual relationships where couples and singles allow and encourage their partners to have sexual relations with others. If you go to this type of place, you are probably going to encounter nudity and sexual activity.

Swinger Clubs are basically nightclubs that cater to the swinger crowd. Most are BYOB establishments that have playrooms for swinger fun. Unfortunately, there are no Maine swinger clubs.

As far as Maine swinger resorts go, there is one place that I would very loosely classify this way. It is not much of a swinger spot and it is not much of a resort but it is the best Maine has to offer. To experience a real swinger resort you would have to go to the Florida swinger resorts or a big resort like Hedonism II.

A great alternative to swinger resorts or swinger clubs is the events that are put on by Maine swinger groups. These events can include hotel takeovers that can essentially turn a local hotel into a temporary swinger resort.

We will also go over some Major Online Sites for Maine Swingers. These are websites that Maine swingers can use to help make swinger connections at the clubs or on their own. These connections are essential to the swinger lifestyle.

Maine Swinger Clubs

Maine Swinger Clubs

Unfortunately, there are no open Maine swinger clubs. Swinger clubs have dedicated venues that they use on a consistent basis. This means a permanent location that usually has a BYOB bar, dancefloor, adult playrooms, and other amenities.

These clubs are usually open on a regular basis and you can attend them on a regular basis. This allows you to get to know the regular crowd and can make it a more comfortable experience.

For Maine swingers, the closest option for a swinger club is going to be Sinz (you can read our full Club Sinz review here) which is located in Salisbury, Massachusetts which is less than a half hour from the Maine border. There are additional options in Rhode Island including the highly rated Electricity Social Club.

Maine Swinger Resorts

Maine Swinger Resorts
A good example of a swinger resort would be Hedonism II

In the Maine swinger resorts category, there is amazingly a spot that loosely fits the resort classification. This spot known as the Richmond Sauna is just barely in this category as it is not truly a resort and not truly a swinger spot.

If you are interested in checking out a swinger resort, the easiest way for Maine swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the Florida swinger resorts.

Richmond Corner Sauna

Maine Swinger Resorts Richmond Sauna

81 Dingley Rd,
Richmond, ME 04357
(207) 737-4752
https://saunamaine.com/

The Richmond sauna is a clothing-optional bed and breakfast. This spot has a sunning lawn for nude tanning and soaking up the sun. This location also has a clothing-optional indoor heated pool and a clothing-optional hot tub. The main attraction of the location is the Finnish saunas.

I put the Richmond sauna in the resort category because it has overnight rooms available and it has the amenities like the clothing-optional pool, hot tub, and saunas.

This is a nice rustic location that may not appeal to those that are into a new and shiny look. Things are kept clean and nice but you will not confuse this with a five-star hotel. Some of the floors in the actual sauna area are concrete and it has that down-at-camp feel.

That being said this is the best nudist spot that you will find in Maine. It is open year-round which is quite an accomplishment in Maine. You will find this to be an easy spot to begin your nudist experience.

This spot used to be definitely a spot for Maine swingers but that has recently been curtailed. While everything is still clothing optional, public sexual displays are no longer allowed. Swinger couples will still meet up here and you can utilize the private saunas for a little play though it is really hot in there.

The lawn and pool are open during the daytime for only a $10 fee. The evening sauna, hot tub, and pool are available at $35 per person. Overnight rooms are available starting at $120 per night.

I really recommend that anyone in Maine or visiting Maine should check out this location. The people are friendly and it is a real slice of Maine.

Maine Swinger Groups

A great alternative to Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger resorts is the Maine swinger groups. Unfortunately, these groups have become less active in the Covid era but seem to be showing some signs of life recently.

These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or takeover whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.

If you are looking to connect with other swinger couples then these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.

Nooner’s Parties

YORK, ME
https://noonersclub.com/

This Maine swinger group lists its location as being in southern Maine though most of its events are held just across the border in Portsmouth, NH. Most of their events are held in hotel rooms. These are not complete hotel takeovers instead they are held in one or more rooms at a local hotel.

Their events are geared mostly towards couples and you must be a member of SLS (SwingLifestyle) in order to attend. Additionally, all of their events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle). In general, they have an event about once a month.

Maine Swingers

Houlton, ME
https://maineswingers.net/

Currently, this group seems to be completely inactive. Unfortunately, a lot of groups became inactive during Covid.

Major Online Sites for Maine Swingers

There are two major online sites that Maine Swingers should be checking out if they want to seriously get involved in the swinger scene. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder).

Both of these sites are free to join and check out. By becoming active in these sites, you can connect with other local swingers to find out what is going on.

SLS is probably the most popular site and AFF is probably the more visual site. I would recommend SLS more for making swinger event connections.

SLS (SwingLifeStyle)

Swingers
SwingLifeStyle.com

SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for Maine swingers. There is just a ton of information available on the site. You can search for local events and search for local swingers. There is just a ton of information here.

This is the website where most Maine swingers and Maine swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members going to these events ahead of time.

This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is basically a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.

Adult Friend Finder

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http://adultfriendfinder.com/

Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not at meeting others at events or clubs. I much prefer SLS (SwingLifestyle) but some really love AFF.

Users tend to post a lot more pictures on AFF but I find that the SLS users tend to play fewer games than AFF users. But it is a matter of personal preference. AFF is free to join but you have to pay to upgrade and use the messaging features.

Men’s Swinger Concerns

You will find a ton of articles out there addressing the concerns of women about enjoying the swinger lifestyle but very few about the concerns of men. I remember the concerns that I had before entering the lifestyle and how little information I found about how to seriously treat these concerns.

So whether you are looking at making your first visits to Maine swinger clubs, Maine swinger resorts, or even events by Maine swinger groups, you should address your concerns.

Fears of Seeing your Partner with Another Man

Ok, this is a big one. We all have that fear of what if she just enjoys it too much. What if she decides that I am inferior to someone else or that I am just not that good.

We all have these fears initially but as men, we just put too much into it. For women as well as men, being turned on is more about the mental aspects than the physical aspects. So her enjoyment will have more to do with the situation than with the other man.

What she will remember is that you had the confidence and concern about her enjoyment that let her have the fun. Do not let your jealousy or self-doubt get in the way of her enjoyment. If you can do this, she will associate her enjoyment with you.

If you can’t do this then maybe the swinging lifestyle is not for you. Being a swinger is more about bringing pleasure to others than bringing pleasure to yourself.

Erection Quality and the Swinger Lifestyle

A really big thing that really bothered me before joining the swinger lifestyle was erection quality. I suffered from fairly severe erectile dysfunction and I was not comfortable becoming a swinger when I was such a poor performer in my eyes.

First of all, you can be a successful swinger even with poor erection quality. It is common for couples to be soft swap only (meaning no penetrative sex). We all know that oral sex can be the best experience and that there are tons of new things to explore without having to get a firm erection.

That being said poor erection quality can be a major problem. It can indicate other serious health conditions, so be sure to see a doctor as it could save your life. Additionally, I know from personal experience that erectile dysfunction takes a huge mental toll on a man.

I could not get over this in order to enjoy the swinger lifestyle. I knew that my wife would love me no matter what but I couldn’t mentally deal with the thought of her getting nailed by another guy while I couldn’t even get it up.

I tried everything to treat my erectile dysfunction including prescription pills, supplements, and even prescription injections (ouch!!) with little success. When I was about to give up, I finally discovered acoustic wave therapy with the Phoenix device.

This device utilizes patented FDA-registered tech and it just worked for me when everything else had failed. If you want to have amazing quality erections again, don’t give up without trying the Phoenix. It gave me the confidence to embrace the swinger lifestyle.

Penis Size and the Swinge Lifestyle

Another big concern that men have is that they will not measure up to other men when it comes to penis size. First of all, men put way too much thought and worry into the penis size issue. That being said, I am not going to be like everyone else and just dismiss the issue. It can be a valid concern on the part of men and it is unfair to just say don’t worry about it.

Most women do not put penis size at the top of their lists when picking a sexual partner. They are usually much more concerned with looks, physique, sense of humor, and overall personality. But studies have shown that penis size is a factor for many women when picking sexual partners.

Additionally, if you start participating in the swinger lifestyle, what you encounter is probably not going to make you feel better about your penis size. To find out more about this check out the article Penis Size at Nudist Resorts for more information.

You have two options if you have these worries about penis size. The first and best option is to just try to get over it. It is not a major factor for most women and your partner is not going to leave you for a bigger penis. Your self-confidence is much more important than a huge penis.

If you can’t get over it, there is actually a way to increase your penis size. No matter what anyone says, this has been proven in scientific research papers. This is not through the use of magic pills, lotions, or any other quick and easy fix.

The use of penis traction devices is the only way that works but it takes time and effort. To be clear, you will not double your size of anything close to that. If you put in months of effort, you may gain about an inch of length and some girth.

To find out more about penis traction devices be sure to read Do Penis Traction Devices work? This article contains information about the devices, scientific studies about the devices, and my personal results using the devices.