My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country like the one in Maine. And that leads to the question, what is available for Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger resorts?
In general, there are very limited options available for Maine swingers. There are no Maine swinger clubs but there is what some might consider a Maine swinger resort. There are also some Maine swinger group options available so do not give up on having some swinger play in Vacationland.
So let’s take a look at what is available for Maine swingers. The few available places, the groups that put on events in the area, and some internet social group options. Additionally, if you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note to Male Maine Swingers section.
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Maine Swinger Clubs
Unfortunately, there are no open Maine swinger clubs. Swinger clubs have dedicated venues that they use on a consistent basis. This means a permanent location that usually has a BYOB bar, dancefloor, adult playrooms, and other amenities.
These clubs are usually open on a regular basis and you can attend them on a regular basis. This allows you to get to know the regular crowd and can make it a more comfortable experience.
For Maine swingers, the closest option for a swinger club is going to be Sinz (you can read our full Club Sinz review here) which is located in Salisbury, Massachusetts which is less than a half hour from the Maine border.
There are additional options in Massachusetts and Rhode Island including the highly-rated Electricity Social Club. These clubs are not too far from southern Maine and are definitely worth the trip for Maine swingers to check out.
Maine Swinger Resorts
In the Maine swinger resorts category, there is amazingly a spot that loosely fits the resort classification. This spot known as the Richmond Sauna is just barely in this category because it is not truly a resort and not truly a swinger spot.
If you are interested in checking out a swinger resort, the easiest way for Maine swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the Florida swinger resorts. It is easy to grab a low-cost flight to the Tampa area to check out Caliente. If you feel more adventurous, plan a full vacation to Hedonism.
Richmond Corner Sauna
81 Dingley Rd,
Richmond, ME 04357
(207) 737-4752
https://saunamaine.com/
The Richmond sauna is a clothing-optional bed and breakfast. This spot has a sunning lawn for nude tanning and soaking up the sun. This location also has a clothing-optional indoor heated pool and a clothing-optional hot tub. The main attraction of the location is the Finnish saunas.
I put the Richmond sauna in the resort category because it has overnight rooms available and it has the amenities like the clothing-optional pool, hot tub, and saunas.
This is a nice rustic location that may not appeal to those that are into a new and shiny look. Things are kept clean and nice but you will not confuse this with a five-star hotel. Some of the floors in the actual sauna area are concrete and it has that down-at-camp feel.
That being said this is the best nudist spot that you will find in Maine. It is open year-round which is quite an accomplishment in Maine. You will find this to be an easy spot to begin your nudist experience.
This spot used to be definitely a spot for Maine swingers but that has recently been curtailed. While everything is still clothing optional, public sexual displays are no longer allowed. Swinger couples will still meet up here and you can utilize the private saunas for a little play though it is really hot in there.
The lawn and pool are open during the daytime for only a $10 fee. The evening sauna, hot tub, and pool are available at $35 per person. Overnight rooms are available starting at $120 per night.
I really recommend that anyone in Maine or visiting Maine should check out this location. The people are friendly and it is a real slice of Maine.
Maine Swinger Groups
A great alternative to Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger resorts is the Maine swinger groups. Unfortunately, these groups have become less active in the Covid era but seem to be showing some signs of life recently.
These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or take over whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on these events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.
If you want to connect with other swinger couples, these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.
Nooner’s Parties
YORK, ME
https://noonersclub.com/
This Maine swinger group lists its location as being in southern Maine though most of its events are held just across the border in Portsmouth, NH. Most of their events are held in hotel rooms. These are not complete hotel takeovers instead they are held in one or more rooms at a local hotel.
Their events are geared mostly towards couples and you must be a member of SLS (SwingLifestyle) to attend. Additionally, all of their events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle). In general, they have an event about once a month.
Maine Swingers
Houlton, ME
https://maineswingers.net/
Currently, this group seems to be completely inactive. Unfortunately, a lot of groups became inactive during Covid.
Meeting Up With Maine Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that Maine swingers use to meet up with other local swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). We use these sites to meet the couples that we hook up with at the swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and sometimes just on our own.
These sites become even more important in a rural state like Maine. When there are few clubs or other outlets for swinger activities, it becomes even more essential to use sites like these to hook up with fellow Maine swingers.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for Maine swingers. This is the website where Maine swinger clubs and Maine swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.
Important Note To Male Maine Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples, the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
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Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.