My wife and I have been swingers for years now and we just love the lifestyle. We love checking out swinger spots and have been compiling a state-by-state guide to swinger locations. That leads to the question, what is available for Massachusetts swinger clubs and Massachusetts swinger resorts?
Massachusetts does offer a few options for the local swinger. There are a few Massachusetts swinger clubs available in the Bay State. While there are no Massachusetts swinger resorts, there are still some options. Local swinger groups and online groups offer additional options for the local swinger.
So let’s take a look at what is available for Massachusetts swingers. The Massachusetts swinger resorts, the Massachusetts swinger clubs, and some internet social group options can make the fun happen. Additionally, if you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note to All Men section.
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Massachusetts Swinger Clubs
My wife and I love going out to places like Massachusetts swinger clubs. It is a great way to go out and meet some local swingers that you might never meet otherwise. If you go to these clubs with the right attitude, you are almost assured to have a good time every time you go out.
When it comes to Massachusetts swinger clubs there are a couple of options available. In addition to these Massachusetts swinger clubs, there are additional clubs available in neighboring Rhode Island, Connecticut, and New York.
Club SINZ
11 North End Blvd
Salisbury, MA 01952
https://www.clubsinz.com/
603-772-2222
Sinz is a Massachusetts swinger club for couples only that operates a nightclub called Sinz Wicked. They try not to publicize the location of the club but it is located on the 2nd and 3rd floors of Ten’s Showclub in Salisbury, MA.
It is pretty easy to purchase event tickets on their website. These events are on every other Saturday night and always have some fun theme associated with them.
Their website describes the nightclub as, “WICKED IS OUR ‘MEMBERS ONLY’, STATE OF THE ART ULTRA LOUNGE, WHERE WE HOST OUR EVENTS. WICKED IS EVERYTHING THAT AN ADVENTUROUS, ROMANTIC COUPLE COULD WANT IN A NIGHTCLUB INCLUDING…
- Multiple top shelf bars
- Luxurious intimate seating areas
- A fully lighted dance floor with our amazing sound system
- Multiple video screens throughout
- Pocket billiards table (our latest addition)
- A private, attached outdoor balcony for our members that enjoy smoking
- FREE parking in our secure lot
- Professional security team on hand for all events
- Many more ‘members only’ features are revealed when you attend for your first time! “
They host events that usually occur every other Saturday night from 9 p.m to 1 a.m. While this club does not feature playrooms, they do provide some opportunities for a little swinger play.
The best way to find out what events are coming up and to make connections with other swingers going to Sinz is to use SLS (SwingLifestyle). SLS lets you see what Sinz events are coming up and communicate with others that are attending the Sinz events so you establish that special connection ahead of time.
You need to apply for membership which is really easy to do online, basic membership is free and gold membership which gives you a number of benefits at $149/year. Event rates run from $60 to $75 depending on the event.
Overall, this is a fairly tame swingers club and may be a good one for newbies to check out. The main drawback of Sinz is that the club is fairly expensive.
You can read our full review of Club Sinz Massachusetts swingers club from our visit here.
Sterling Swingers Club
Waltham, MA
781-843-5112
http://www.newenglandcouples.com/
The Sterling is a Massachusetts swinger club that is located in the Waltham area to the west of Boston. They are open to couples and single women only. The Sterling generally has events on Saturday nights but occasionally has additional events.
This is a BYOB facility so you will need to bring your own drinks. Cups, ice, and some other little things are provided but plan on bringing what you need.
The Sterling offers a 2000-square-foot facility that has on-premise play. There is play in the general lounge area and in two semi-private playrooms.
This club is pretty active with a lot of sexual play going on. Everyone is very respectful and friendly but it may be a little bit much if you are a swinger newbie. I still recommend checking it out but be prepared to see a lot of sexual activity.
If you have not been to the Sterling before, you need to call the number above to get information to attend. You will have to verify that you are a couple by having both of you present or verify that you are a woman to get attendance info.
In our opinion, the Sterling is the best spot for a Massachusetts swinger to meet up with other local swingers and have some fun. It is definitely worth the visit.
Massachusetts Swinger Resorts
There are no Massachusetts swinger resorts but that does not mean you are out of luck. It is worth the effort to visit these resorts as part of the swinger lifestyle.
My wife and I love the freedom that goes along with these resorts. We look forward to our trips to and spending time naked at the hot tubs and pools.
A great alternative to Massachusetts swinger resorts is a local nudist resort. These places have quite a different crowd from a swinger resort but some may find this spot of some use. Check out Naturist or Swinger Nude Resorts and Beaches for the difference between these types of places.
What we have done is meet up with other swingers at nudist resorts. You can still hang out in the nude at the hot tub and pool but you can’t play there. You have to wait and have fun once you get back to your room. Additionally, you severely limit your opportunities to meet others but it is still an option.
If you are seriously interested in checking out some real first-class swinger resorts, the easiest and best way for Massachusetts swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the incredible Florida swinger resorts. These are great experiences to have.
Local Massachusetts Nudist Resorts
As I mentioned above, these places are definitely not Massachusetts swinger resorts but they can be great places for swingers to meet up. Here are some of the local nudist spots that you can use. If you want a full review of these nudist spots you can check out Massachusetts Nude Beaches and Resorts.
Berkshire Vista Resort
PO Box 1177
312 Kittle Road
Hancock, Ma. 01237
413-738-5154
http://www.berkshirevista.com/
Sandy Terraces Associates
570 Wakeby Rd
Marstons Mills, MA 02648
(508) 428-9209
http://www.sandyterraces.com/
Massachusetts Swinger Groups
Another great option for swingers to get together is Massachusetts swinger groups. These groups occasionally put on events throughout the year. These events can include things like house parties, hotel takeovers, and group trips.
Most of these groups communicate through social groups like SLS (SwingLifestyle) to organize events and meet up with fellow group members.
Club4Play
https://www.club4playparties.com/
Club4Play is a Massachusetts swinger group that is mostly a travel club that is basically an affiliate for a bunch of swinger travel/resort programs but they also put on a hotel takeover in Massachusetts annually.
Last July, my wife and I attended the Club4Play Pool Party and Hotel Takeover in West Springfield, MA. This was probably the biggest swinger event of the year in New England.
Club4Play took over the waterpark and the Clarion hotel in West Springfield. During the day at this event, the fun was focused on the waterpark that was located within the hotel. Unfortunately, due to local laws and hotel rules, everyone had to remain fully clothed at the pool party. No poolside play was allowed.
In the evening, there was a themed dance party. This was a great chance to mingle with a bunch of local swingers.
Later in the evening, there was a playroom that was open in one of the hotel rooms. We have been to a bunch of playrooms but my wife found this one to be a little creepy.
There was one person that worked with Club4Play that supervised the playroom. We have never run into a situation like this at a playroom where there is just some guy that basically works there who is sitting there and staring at you.
It may have been just a personality problem that we had with the guy that supervised the playroom. He had made my wife slightly uncomfortable before going to the playroom so when we saw him just sitting there supervising the room it was a total turn-off. This was the first time my wife did not want to use a playroom.
We are not saying that this event was a total bust. It was still a great opportunity to network with other New England swingers. It was just a little disappointing overall in the way things worked out at this Massachusetts swinger group event.
Group Escapades
https://escapadesnewengland.com/
Group Escapades is mostly a Rhode Island swingers group though they do sometimes put on events in Massachusetts. They put on events like club takeovers. These events are geared mostly toward couples and single women.
Most of the Group Escapades events involve the takeover of the Platforms Night Club in Providence, Rhode Island. They organize their events on SLS (SwingLifestyle) which is a great place to check out what they have coming up.
Meeting Up With Massachusetts Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that Massachusetts swingers use to meet up with other swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). We use these sites to meet the couples that we hook up with at the swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and sometimes just on our own.
What we actually do is make some connections ahead of time before going on our trips. This helps to increase our chances of finding a nice compatible couple when we go to the resort or club.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for club and resort events. This is the website where Tennessee swinger groups posts all of its events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.
Important Note To Male Massachusetts Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
1. Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
If you have any concerns about erection quality, check out this article on at-home acoustic wave therapy. This type of revolutionary treatment has been used by the Hollywood elite for years. The Phoenix Device let me get rock-hard erections that gave me the confidence for the swinger lifestyle.
Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.