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New Hampshire Swinger Clubs and Swinger Resorts: Swinger fun in the Granite State

New Hampshire swinger clubs

My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country like those in NH. And that leads to the question, what is available for New Hampshire swinger clubs and New Hampshire swinger resorts?

There are no New Hampshire swinger clubs or New Hampshire swinger resorts but there are still some options available. New Hampshire swingers can access some nearby swinger clubs and nudist resorts. Several local swinger groups and online swinger sites help New Hampshire swingers connect and play.

So let’s take a look at what is available for New Hampshire swingers. The nearby places, the groups that put on events in the area, and some internet social group options. If you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note to Male New Hampshire Swingers section.

New Hampshire Swinger Clubs

New Hampshire Swinger Club

Unfortunately, there are no New Hampshire swinger clubs but there are still some options for New Hampshire swingers. New England can be a tough spot for those in the swinger lifestyle and it is not uncommon to need to travel a little.

One option for New Hampshire swingers is Club Sinz. I am including this club on the list of New Hampshire Swinger clubs because it is only a couple of miles from the New Hampshire border. As a matter of fact, when we visited Club Sinz we stayed at a hotel in Seabrook, NH, and used UBER to get to the club.

In addition to Club Sinz, those looking for New Hampshire swinger clubs can check out other clubs in Massachusetts and Rhode Island including the highly-rated Electricity Social Club. These clubs are only a couple of hours south of seacoast NH.

Club SINZ

11 North End Blvd
Salisbury, MA 01952
https://www.clubsinz.com/

603-772-2222

Sinz is a social club for couples only that operates a nightclub called Sinz Wicked. They try not to publicize the location of the club but it is located on the 2nd and 3rd floors of Ten’s Showclub in Salisbury, MA.

Their website describes the nightclub as, “WICKED IS OUR ‘MEMBERS ONLY’, STATE OF THE ART ULTRA LOUNGE, WHERE WE HOST OUR EVENTS. WICKED IS EVERYTHING THAT AN ADVENTUROUS, ROMANTIC COUPLE COULD WANT IN A NIGHTCLUB INCLUDING…

  • Multiple top shelf bars
  • Luxurious intimate seating areas
  • A fully lighted dance floor with our amazing sound system
  • Multiple video screens throughout
  • Pocket billiards table (our latest addition)
  • A private, attached outdoor balcony for our members that enjoy smoking
  • FREE parking in our secure lot  
  • Professional security team on hand for all events
  • Many more ‘members only’ features are revealed when you attend for your first time! “

They host events that usually occur every other Saturday night from 9 p.m to 1 a.m. While this club does not feature playrooms, they do provide some opportunities for a little swinger play.

This club is mostly a place for swinger couples to connect with each other as it advertises it as being an off-premise site (no sex at the club). However, if you check our review linked below, you will find that there are some opportunities to have some sexual swinger fun at Sinz.

We did enjoy our visit to this club but there was one negative. Visiting this club can be rather expensive. Event fees are not bad but you will find that drinks are very expensive. Additionally, hotels in this area are very expensive, especially in the summertime. We easily spent around $500 on one night out here.

The best way to find out what events are coming up and to make connections with other swingers going to Sinz is to use SLS (SwingLifestyle). SLS lets you communicate with others that are attending Sinz events so you establish that special connection ahead of time.

You need to apply for membership, basic membership is free and gold membership which gives you a number of benefits are $149/year. Event rates run from $60 to $75 depending on the event.

You can read a full review of Club Sinz here.

New Hampshire Swinger Resorts

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A good example of a swinger resort would be Hedonism II

Unfortunately, there are no New Hampshire swinger resorts that are currently open.

This is too bad because swinger resorts are our favorite spots. We love hanging out in the nude with other swingers at the hot tub or pool with a drink in our hands. You can just see how this lends itself to swinger fun.

New Hampshire swingers do not need to give up hope, there are a couple of nearby spots that could kind of cover this resort craving in a pinch.

The first is is amazing Maine spot that loosely fits the resort classification. This spot known as the Richmond Sauna is just barely in this category as it is not truly a resort and not truly a swinger spot but it does provide some serious nude fun.

The Richmond sauna is only an hour and a half drive north of Portsmouth, NH, and can be worth the trip.

Another alternative to New Hampshire swinger resorts is the local nudist resort. This place has quite a different crowd from a swinger resort but some may find this spot of some use. Check out Naturist or Swinger Nude Resorts and Beaches for the difference between these types of places.

The big difference that potential swingers need to know is that these naturist nudist resorts do not allow for any public sexual displays. Anything like that will get you kicked out. Of course, once your room doors are shut you can do what you want.

Check out New Hampshire Nude Beaches and Resorts for what is available for NH nudist resorts. We have on occasion met up with other swingers at nudist resorts for nude fun and then played in private.

You can find some additional naturist nudist resorts in the neighboring states of Massachusetts and Vermont. Personally, I have used nudist resorts to meet up with other swingers but I would much rather go to a real swinger resort even if I have to travel.

If you are seriously interested in checking out some real first-class swinger resorts, the easiest and best way for New Hampshire swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the incredible Florida swinger resorts.

Richmond Corner Sauna

Maine Swinger Resorts Richmond Sauna

81 Dingley Rd,
Richmond, ME 04357
(207) 737-4752
https://saunamaine.com/

The Richmond sauna is a clothing-optional bed and breakfast. This spot has a sunning lawn for nude tanning and soaking up the sun. This location also has a clothing-optional indoor heated pool and a clothing-optional hot tub. The main attraction of the location is the Finnish saunas.

I put the Richmond sauna in the resort category because it has overnight rooms available and it has the amenities like the clothing-optional pool, hot tub, and saunas.

This is a nice rustic location that may not appeal to those that are into a new and shiny look. Things are kept clean and nice but you will not confuse this with a five-star hotel. Some of the floors in the actual sauna area are concrete and it has that down-at-camp feel.

That being said this is the best nudist spot that you will find in Maine. It is open year-round which is quite an accomplishment in Maine. You will find this to be an easy spot to begin your nudist experience.

This spot used to be definitely a spot for Maine swingers but that has recently been curtailed. While everything is still clothing optional, public sexual displays are no longer allowed. Swinger couples will still meet up here and you can utilize the private saunas for a little play though it is really hot in there.

The lawn and pool are open during the daytime for only a $10 fee. The evening sauna, hot tub, and pool are available at $35 per person. Overnight rooms are available starting at $120 per night.

Cedar Waters Village Nudist Park

24 Smoke Street
Nottingham, NH 03290
603-679-2036
http://www.nhnude.com/

This does not really belong in the New Hampshire swinger resorts category. As a matter of fact, any public displays of sexuality at this place will get you kicked out. But if you are looking for a nudist spot to meet up with another couple, then you might be able to use this place.

Just remember that you would have to keep all displays of sexuality behind closed doors. Personally, I would recommend that New Hampshire swingers hop a flight to one of the real swinger resorts in Florida instead of going here.

This is a clothing-optional resort for naturists in southern New Hampshire. It is located on a lake with a large area of secluded woods that offers access to swimming, hiking trails, campsites, and cabins for rent.

This place definitely has the naturist vibe to it so would not be the place to go if you are looking to be swinging or any type of public sexuality. Numerous online reviews state that they do not believe the place to be transgender or gay-friendly.

The Cedar Waters Village website describes the resort as ” a private, gated, members-only, seasonal vacation and summer community where the quiet privacy of the lake and park offers relaxing sandy beaches, lawns for sunbathing, swimming, sailing, windsurfing, tennis, and other racquet sports, shuffleboard, horseshoes, petanque, wood-fired sauna, hot showers, modern restrooms; superb bass, pickerel, and horn pout fishing; camp rowboats, paddleboats, and canoes; also overnight RV sites, seasonal RV lots, seasonal RV waterfront lots; waterfront rental cabins, church, cozy clubhouse with large screened porches; and lakeside restaurant to enjoy a leisurely Sunday morning breakfast.”

Membership rates without accommodations run from $42 per day or $420 per year for the 2021 year. Lakeside cottage rentals start at $82 per night with weekly rates available.

If you are looking for a family-orientated naturist location then this is a good option to check out.

New Hampshire Swinger Groups

A great alternative to New Hampshire swinger clubs and New Hampshire swinger resorts are the New Hampshire swinger groups. Unfortunately, these groups have become less active in the Covid era but seem to be showing some signs of life recently.

These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or take over whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.

If you want to connect with other New Hampshire swingers, these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.

Most of these groups use swinger websites to communicate and organize. See the Meeting Up With New Hampshire Swingers for more information on these swinger websites.

Nooner’s Parties

YORK, ME
https://noonersclub.com/

While listed as a Maine swinger group, most of their events are held in Portsmouth, NH. Which I would say would qualify them as a New Hampshire swinger group.

Most of their events are held in hotel rooms. These are not complete hotel takeovers instead they are held in one or more rooms at a local hotel. The swingers will meet up at the hotel for whatever the planned event is for the month.

Their events are geared mostly towards couples and you must be a member of SLS (SwingLifestyle) to attend. Additionally, all of their events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle). In general, they have an event about once a month.

Meeting Up With New Hampshire Swingers

There are a couple of online sites that New Hampshire swingers use to meet up with other local swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). We use these sites to meet the couples that we hook up with at the swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and sometimes just on our own.

These sites become even more important in a rural state like New Hampshire. When there are few clubs or other outlets for swinger activities, it becomes even more essential to use sites like these to hook up with fellow New Hampshire swingers.

SLS (SwingLifeStyle)

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SwingLifeStyle.com

SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for New Hampshire swingers. This is the website where New Hampshire swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.

This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.

Adult Friend Finder

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http://adultfriendfinder.com/

Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not at meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.

Important Note To Male New Hampshire Swingers

When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.

1. Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle

The Phoenix device is the technology that porn stars like Cade Maddox use to maximize their erection quality.

Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.

If you have any concerns about erection quality, check out this article on at-home acoustic wave therapy. This type of revolutionary treatment has been used by the Hollywood elite for years. The Phoenix Device let me get rock-hard erections that gave me the confidence for the swinger lifestyle.

Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle

Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.

Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).

The Swinger Inferiority Fear

This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?

Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.