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New Hampshire Swinger Clubs and Swinger Resorts: Swinger fun in the Granite State

New Hampshire swinger clubs

My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country and have been trying to compile a state-by-state guide to the best swinger spots.

And that leads to the question, what is available for New Hampshire swinger clubs and New Hampshire swinger resorts?

There are no New Hampshire swinger clubs or New Hampshire swinger resorts but there are still options available. New Hampshire swingers can access some nearby swinger clubs and nudist resorts. There are also a number of local swinger groups that put on events to entertain swingers.

So let’s take a look at what is available for New Hampshire swingers. The nearby places, the groups that put on events in the area, and some internet social group options. Additionally, if you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Men’s Swinger Concerns section.

New Hampshire Swinger Clubs, Swinger Resorts, and Other Options

Swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and swinger groups all provide venues for people involved in the swinger lifestyle to meet up. If you are involved in the swinger lifestyle or even curious about it, these places can be great fun.

The swinger lifestyle that these places promote is the open sexual relationships where couples and singles allow and encourage their partners to have sexual relations with others. If you go to this type of place, you are probably going to encounter nudity and sexual activity.

Swinger Clubs are basically nightclubs that cater to the swinger crowd. Most are BYOB establishments that have playrooms for swinger fun. Unfortunately, there are no New Hampshire swinger clubs but you can find some real close by.

As far as New Hampshire swinger resorts go, there are none of these in the state. However, there is a nudist resort (definitely non-swinger) and a nude sauna in a neighboring state. To experience a real swinger resort you would have to go to the Florida swinger resorts or a big resort like Hedonism II.

A great alternative to swinger resorts or swinger clubs is the events that are put on by New Hampshire swinger groups. These events can include hotel takeovers that can essentially turn a local hotel into a temporary swinger resort.

We will also go over some Major Online Sites for New Hampshire Swingers. These are websites that New Hampshire swingers can use to help make swinger connections.

New Hampshire Swinger Clubs

New Hampshire Swinger Club

So while there are no actual New Hampshire swinger clubs but I am going to include the information on Club Sinz which is located right across the New Hampshire border in Salisbury, MA. As a matter of fact, when we visited Sinz we stayed at a hotel in Seabrook, NH, and used UBER to get to the club.

There are additional options in Rhode Island including the highly rated Electricity Social Club. These clubs are only a couple of hours south of seacoast NH.

Club SINZ

11 North End Blvd
Salisbury, MA 01952
https://www.clubsinz.com/

603-772-2222

Sinz is a social club for couples only that operates a nightclub called Sinz Wicked. They try not to publicize the location of the club but it is located on the 2nd and 3rd floors of Ten’s Showclub in Salisbury, MA.

Their website describes the nightclub as, “WICKED IS OUR ‘MEMBERS ONLY’, STATE OF THE ART ULTRA LOUNGE, WHERE WE HOST OUR EVENTS. WICKED IS EVERYTHING THAT AN ADVENTUROUS, ROMANTIC COUPLE COULD WANT IN A NIGHTCLUB INCLUDING…

  • Multiple top shelf bars
  • Luxurious intimate seating areas
  • A fully lighted dance floor with our amazing sound system
  • Multiple video screens throughout
  • Pocket billiards table (our latest addition)
  • A private, attached outdoor balcony for our members that enjoy smoking
  • FREE parking in our secure lot  
  • Professional security team on hand for all events
  • Many more ‘members only’ features are revealed when you attend for your first time! “

They host events that usually occur every other Saturday night from 9 p.m to 1 a.m. While this club does not feature playrooms, they do provide some opportunities for a little swinger play.

The best way to find out what events are coming up and to make connections with other swingers going to Sinz is to use SLS (SwingLifestyle). SLS lets you communicate with others that are attending Sinz events so you establish that special connection ahead of time.

You need to apply for membership, basic membership is free and gold membership which gives you a number of benefits is $149/year. Event rates run from $60 to $75 depending on the event.

You can read a full review of Club Sinz here.

New Hampshire Swinger Resorts

New Hampshire swinger resorts Hedonism example
A good example of a swinger resort would be Hedonism II

There are no New Hampshire swinger resorts that are currently open. There are however a couple of nearby spots that can kind of cover this resort craving in a pinch.

The first is is amazing Maine spot that loosely fits the resort classification. This spot known as the Richmond Sauna is just barely in this category as it is not truly a resort and not truly a swinger spot but it does provide some serious nude fun.

The Richmond sauna is only an hour and a half drive north of Portsmouth, NH, and can be worth the trip.

Another alternative to New Hampshire swinger resorts is a local nudist resort. This place has quite a different crowd from a swinger resort but some may find this spot of some use. Check out Naturist or Swinger Nude Resorts and Beaches for the difference between these types of places.

If you are seriously interested in checking out some real first-class swinger resorts, the easiest and best way for New Hampshire swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the incredible Florida swinger resorts.

Richmond Corner Sauna

Maine Swinger Resorts Richmond Sauna

81 Dingley Rd,
Richmond, ME 04357
(207) 737-4752
https://saunamaine.com/

The Richmond sauna is a clothing-optional bed and breakfast. This spot has a sunning lawn for nude tanning and soaking up the sun. This location also has a clothing-optional indoor heated pool and a clothing-optional hot tub. The main attraction of the location is the Finnish saunas.

I put the Richmond sauna in the resort category because it has overnight rooms available and it has the amenities like the clothing-optional pool, hot tub, and saunas.

This is a nice rustic location that may not appeal to those that are into a new and shiny look. Things are kept clean and nice but you will not confuse this with a five-star hotel. Some of the floors in the actual sauna area are concrete and it has that down-at-camp feel.

That being said this is the best nudist spot that you will find in Maine. It is open year-round which is quite an accomplishment in Maine. You will find this to be an easy spot to begin your nudist experience.

This spot used to be definitely a spot for Maine swingers but that has recently been curtailed. While everything is still clothing optional, public sexual displays are no longer allowed. Swinger couples will still meet up here and you can utilize the private saunas for a little play though it is really hot in there.

The lawn and pool are open during the daytime for only a $10 fee. The evening sauna, hot tub, and pool are available at $35 per person. Overnight rooms are available starting at $120 per night.

Cedar Waters Village Nudist Park

24 Smoke Street
Nottingham, NH 03290
603-679-2036
http://www.nhnude.com/

This does not really belong in the New Hampshire swinger resorts category. As a matter of fact, any public displays of sexuality at this place will get you kicked out. But if you are looking for a nudist spot to meet up with another couple, then you might be able to use this place.

Just remember that you would have to keep all displays of sexuality behind closed doors. Personally, I would recommend that New Hampshire swingers hop a flight to one of the real swinger resorts in Florida instead of going here.

This is a clothing-optional resort for naturists in southern New Hampshire. It is located on a lake with a large area of secluded woods that offers access to swimming, hiking trails, campsites, and cabins for rent.

This place definitely has the naturist vibe to it so would not be the place to go if you are looking to be swinging or any type of public sexuality. Numerous online reviews state that they do not believe the place to be transgender or gay friendly.

The Cedar Waters Village website describes the resort as ” a private, gated, members-only, seasonal vacation and summer community where the quiet privacy of the lake and park offers relaxing sandy beaches, lawns for sunbathing, swimming, sailing, windsurfing, tennis, and other racquet sports, shuffleboard, horseshoes, petanque, wood-fired sauna, hot showers, modern restrooms; superb bass, pickerel, and horn pout fishing; camp rowboats, paddleboats, and canoes; also overnight RV sites, seasonal RV lots, seasonal RV waterfront lots; waterfront rental cabins, church, cozy clubhouse with large screened porches; and lakeside restaurant to enjoy a leisurely Sunday morning breakfast.”

Membership rates without accommodations run from $42 per day or $420 per year for the 2021 year. Lakeside cottage rentals start at $82 per night with weekly rates available.

If you are looking for a family-orientated naturist location then this is a good option to check out.

New Hampshire Swinger Groups

A great alternative to New Hampshire swinger clubs and New Hampshire swinger resorts is the New Hampshire swinger groups. Unfortunately, these groups have become less active in the Covid era but seem to be showing some signs of life recently.

These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or takeover whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.

If you are looking to connect with other New Hampshire swingers then these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.

Nooner’s Parties

YORK, ME
https://noonersclub.com/

While listed as a Maine swinger group, most of their events are held in Portsmouth, NH. Which I would say would qualify them as a New Hampshire swinger group.

Most of their events are held in hotel rooms. These are not complete hotel takeovers instead they are held in one or more rooms at a local hotel. The swingers will meet up at the hotel for whatever the planned event is for the month.

Their events are geared mostly towards couples and you must be a member of SLS (SwingLifestyle) in order to attend. Additionally, all of their events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle). In general, they have an event about once a month.

Major Online Sites for New Hampshire Swingers

There are two major online sites that New Hampshire Swingers should be checking out if they want to seriously get involved in the swinger scene. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder).

Both of these sites are free to join and check out. By becoming active in these sites, you can connect with other local swingers to find out what is going on.

SLS is probably the most popular site and AFF is probably the more visual site. I would recommend SLS more for making swinger event connections.

SLS (SwingLifeStyle)

Swingers
SwingLifeStyle.com

SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for New Hampshire swingers. There is just a ton of information available on the site. You can search for local events and search for local swingers. There is just a ton of information here.

This is the website where most Maine swingers and Maine swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members going to these events ahead of time.

This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is basically a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.

Adult Friend Finder

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http://adultfriendfinder.com/

Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not at meeting others at events or clubs. I much prefer SLS (SwingLifestyle) but some really love AFF.

Users tend to post a lot more pictures on AFF but I find that the SLS users tend to play fewer games than AFF users. But it is a matter of personal preference. AFF is free to join but you have to pay to upgrade and use the messaging features.

Men’s Swinger Concerns

You will find a ton of articles out there addressing the concerns of women about enjoying the swinger lifestyle but very few about the concerns of men. I remember the concerns that I had before entering the lifestyle and how little information I found about how to seriously treat these concerns.

So whether you are looking at making your first visits to New Hampshire swinger clubs, New Hampshire swinger resorts, or even events by New Hampshire swinger groups, you should address your concerns.

Fears of Seeing your Partner with Another Man

Ok, this is a big one. We all have that fear of what if she just enjoys it too much. What if she decides that I am inferior to someone else or that I am just not that good.

We all have these fears initially but as men, we just put too much into it. For women as well as men, being turned on is more about the mental aspects than the physical aspects. So her enjoyment will have more to do with the situation than with the other man.

What she will remember is that you had the confidence and concern about her enjoyment that let her have the fun. Do not let your jealousy or self-doubt get in the way of her enjoyment. If you can do this, she will associate her enjoyment with you.

If you can’t do this then maybe the swinging lifestyle is not for you. Being a swinger is more about bringing pleasure to others than bringing pleasure to yourself.

Erection Quality and the Swinger Lifestyle

A really big thing that really bothered me before joining the swinger lifestyle was erection quality. I suffered from fairly severe erectile dysfunction and I was not comfortable becoming a swinger when I was such a poor performer in my eyes.

First of all, you can be a successful swinger even with poor erection quality. It is common for couples to be soft swap only (meaning no penetrative sex). We all know that oral sex can be the best experience and that there are tons of new things to explore without having to get a firm erection.

That being said poor erection quality can be a major problem. It can indicate other serious health conditions, so be sure to see a doctor as it could save your life. Additionally, I know from personal experience that erectile dysfunction takes a huge mental toll on a man.

I could not get over this in order to enjoy the swinger lifestyle. I knew that my wife would love me no matter what but I couldn’t mentally deal with the thought of her getting nailed by another guy while I couldn’t even get it up.

I tried everything to treat my erectile dysfunction including prescription pills, supplements, and even prescription injections (ouch!!) with little success. When I was about to give up, I finally discovered acoustic wave therapy with the Phoenix device.

This device utilizes patented FDA-registered tech and it just worked for me when everything else had failed. If you want to have amazing quality erections again, don’t give up without trying the Phoenix. It gave me the confidence to embrace the swinger lifestyle.

Penis Size and the Swinge Lifestyle

Another big concern that men have is that they will not measure up to other men when it comes to penis size. First of all, men put way too much thought and worry into the penis size issue. That being said, I am not going to be like everyone else and just dismiss the issue. It can be a valid concern on the part of men and it is unfair to just say don’t worry about it.

Most women do not put penis size at the top of their lists when picking a sexual partner. They are usually much more concerned with looks, physique, sense of humor, and overall personality. But studies have shown that penis size is a factor for many women when picking sexual partners.

Additionally, if you start participating in the swinger lifestyle, what you encounter is probably not going to make you feel better about your penis size. To find out more about this check out the article Penis Size at Nudist Resorts for more information.

You have two options if you have these worries about penis size. The first and best option is to just try to get over it. It is not a major factor for most women and your partner is not going to leave you for a bigger penis. Your self-confidence is much more important than a huge penis.

If you can’t get over it, there is actually a way to increase your penis size. No matter what anyone says, this has been proven in scientific research papers. This is not through the use of magic pills, lotions, or any other quick and easy fix.

The use of penis traction devices is the only way that works but it takes time and effort. To be clear, you will not double your size of anything close to that. If you put in months of effort, you may gain about an inch of length and some girth.

To find out more about penis traction devices be sure to read Do Penis Traction Devices work? This article contains information about the devices, scientific studies about the devices, and my personal results using the devices.