I remember when my wife and I first got started in the swinger lifestyle. We had no idea what the heck squirting was and why people in the swinger lifestyle talked about it. So in this swinger lifestyle guide to squirting, we will answer the question “What is squirting, and how is it tied to the swinger lifestyle?”
In general, squirting is the release of fluid by a female from the urethra during a period of sexual arousal. Many swinger squirters claim that squirting is basically a female ejaculation but studies indicate that the liquid is mostly urine. But there may be much more to it.
In this swinger lifestyle guide to squirting, we will look at what is squirting, what is squirting liquid composed of, how squirting ties into the swinger lifestyle, do you have to be a squirter, and how common is squirting in the swinger lifestyle.
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What Is Squirting?
Squirting is when a woman releases fluid from the urethra during a period of sexual arousal. This can be during orgasm but is not the same as female ejaculation. The quantity of fluid that is released can vary greatly by when usually when swingers are referencing squirting, it is usually a significant amount.
Not all women are squirters and many women will never squirt. In the swinger lifestyle, most of the women that squirt, or at least the ones that talk about it will be the type that squirts a significant amount.
We have encountered many squirters in our swinger experience. For most of them, when they get extremely excited and orgasm they will release a stream of liquid from their urethra. This can be a fairly sizeable stream that will travel up to a few feet.
For those swingers that squirt, this seems to be an exceptionally pleasurable experience and is usually accompanied by a lot of moaning and sensual sounds. For those swingers that are squirters, it is a very pleasurable and integral part of their sex lives.
Most scientists agree that the liquid expelled during squirting is mostly urine but many swinger squirters disagree and say that it is some sort of female ejaculate substance. From our observations and participation, we would agree that it is mostly urine. Check out the section below for more info on the composition of squirting fluid.
Regardless of the composition, many swinger squirters are extremely proud of their squirting ability and are more than willing to tell you all about it. If you are curious about it, all you need to do is visit a swinger party and you are more than likely to have someone who will tell you all about it or even show you.
Many women do not squirt and say that they do not have the ability to squirt. According to many squirters, all women can squirt if they just let go of their inhibitions about it.
In the swinger lifestyle, you are bound to hear other swingers talking about squirting and it is a major part of many swinger’s sex lives. Do not worry if it is not for you because it is also something that most swingers do not participate in.
What Is Squirting Fluid Made Of?
The composition of the fluid from squirting has been under some debate. Scientific studies indicate that the major component of the fluid released during squirting is urine but there is more to it. Most squirting swingers take exception to this and claim that squirting is some sort of female ejaculate.
The study mentioned above involved a really small sample size of five women. The women were squirters. To start the experiment they emptied the urine from the bladders of the women and placed colored saline water into their bladders.
The women then stimulated themselves until they squirted. The fluid that was released comprised mostly of the colored saline water from the bladder thereby indicating that urine is the main component of the squirting fluid.
The squirting fluid from four of the women also contained fluid from Skene’s glands (female prostate) which means this may be a component for many women but the main component would be urine.
These fluids from the Skene’s glands are what is considered female ejaculate (source). The quantity of this is usually only a few milliliters and a thick liquid so it would not account for the big squirters that you often encounter in the swinger lifestyle.
So while there is much more to squirting than just peeing. The actual liquid is going to be mostly urine.
How is Squirting Tied To The Swinger Lifestyle?
The swinger lifestyle is all about new experiences and sexual fantasies. Squirting falls into this category for many people. Some swingers really get off on this.
Your first encounter with squirting may be in the instructions that you receive at swinger parties or swinger clubs. Most parties and clubs give instructions for swinger squirters to put down a towel before engaging in sexual activity to help keep things clean and dry for others.
We entered the swinger lifestyle with absolutely no squirter experience and on our first evening at a swinger event we encountered a squirter. She was very proud and vocal about her squirter ability. She told us about how far she would squirt and what a great experience it was.
This type of experience is fairly typical. We are still not into the whole squirting experience but this has not been an issue for us in the swinger lifestyle.
You are much more likely to encounter someone that is into squirting at a swinger event than you would in the vanilla world.
We find that this is more prevalent at swinger house parties and small local events. We have encountered it a lot less at swinger clubs and big resorts like the great Florida swinger clubs or Hedonism.
What If You Don’t Like Squirting?
If you are interested in the swinger lifestyle but find the idea of squirting to be unappealing, then you are going to be fine. Most squirters are very vocal about their squirting ability so you are unlikely to be surprised by a squirter.
My wife and I are not into the whole squirting scene and we have never had anyone take offense when we say that it is not our thing. You can play as a swinger and have a ton of fun while leaving squirting out of it.
Most swingers are not squirters and nobody is going to think that you are odd for not wanting to participate in this. The swinger lifestyle is just great about accepting people’s personal choices.
The only thing that we really suggest is that you keep an open mind and listen to stories that other swingers have. Even though it is not for us, we enjoy listening to other swingers talk about squirting and how they find it exciting.
The whole swinging lifestyle is about letting people explore their fantasies and just have a little fun. If squirting brings some minutes of joy to someone’s life, then we just hope that they have a great time and experience it as often as possible.
A Swinger Lifestyle Guide to Squirting: Is it Common?
Swinger squirting is fairly common in the lifestyle world. You do not need to be a squirter to be a swinger but it is just something that you will encounter in the swinger lifestyle world.
You may not actually have a sexual encounter with a squirter but it is something that you will see if you spend any time in the swinger world. If I had to take a guess, I would say that less than 20% of the women in the swinger lifestyle are squirters.
We have always had squirters tell us in advance that they do this. So for the most part you are unlikely to encounter a surprise squirter in the swinger lifestyle. This would not be impossible but it is very unlikely.
Most squirters that we have encountered are very proud of their ability and will let you know right up front that it is something they do. Then it is up to you if this is something that you want to try out.
Swingers are usually the most open people that you could ever find about everything. If you or your partner are not squirters, it is definitely worth taking a few minutes to talk to someone that is. Take the time and learn from the swingers that are around you.
If you are looking to try a squirting experience, the swinger lifestyle is a great place to meet a squirter or even a lady that will help you experience squirting for yourself. If you are not into the squirter scene, it is no big deal and you do not need to worry about it.
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