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Vermont Swinger Clubs and Swinger Resorts: Swinger lifestyle fun in Vermont

Vermont swinger clubs and resorts

My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country and have been trying to compile a state-by-state guide to the best swinger spots.

And that leads to the question, what is available for Vermont swinger clubs and Vermont swinger resorts?

There are not very many options available for Vermont swingers so they have to get a little creative. So while there are no Vermont swinger resorts or Vermont swinger clubs, you can still create similar experiences. There are always some options available.

So let’s take a look at what is available for Vermont swingers. The Vermont swinger resorts, the Vermont swinger clubs, and some internet social group options that can make it all happen. Additionally, if you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Men’s Swinger Concerns section.

Vermont Swinger Clubs, Swinger Resorts, and Other Options

Swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and swinger groups all provide venues for people involved in the swinger lifestyle to meet up. If you are involved in the swinger lifestyle or even curious about it, these places can be great fun.

The swinger lifestyle that these places promote is the open sexual relationships where couples and singles allow and encourage their partners to have sexual relations with others. If you go to this type of place, you are probably going to encounter nudity and sexual activity.

Swinger Clubs are basically nightclubs that cater to the swinger crowd. Most are BYOB establishments that have playrooms for swinger fun. While there are no Vermont swinger clubs, we will show you how to make arrangements to have some swinger club fun.

As far as Vermont swinger resorts go, there are no official options available. Once again with a little creativity, we will show you how to have some play with the available resources. To experience a real swinger resort you would have to go to the Florida swinger resorts or a big resort like Hedonism II.

A great alternative to swinger resorts or swinger clubs is the events that are put on by Vermont swinger groups. These events can include hotel takeovers that can essentially turn a local hotel into a temporary swinger resort.

We will also go over some Major Online Sites for Vermont Swingers. These are websites that Vermont swingers can use to help make swinger connections.

Vermont Swinger Clubs

Vermont swinger clubs

Unfortunately, there are no entries in the Vermont options swinger club category. There are some clubs that Vermont swingers can travel to in neighboring states. Check out the articles for Massachusetts and New York for more details.

Another option that I highly recommend is utilizing SLS (SwingLifestyle) or a similar service to set up some local club connections. We live in an area that does not have much for clubs so we will utilize SLS to set up a night out at a local club.

With SLS, you can find swingers in your area and message them. You can either set up meetings with another couple or our favorite is to set up meetings at a local vanilla club with three or four couples.

When you have a big group, you are bound to hit it off with someone. You can go out to a club for drinks and dancing then take the party back to someone’s house or a local hotel room. We have used this tactic on a few occasions with excellent results.

Vermont Swinger Resorts

Vermont swinger resorts
A good example of a swinger resort would be Hedonism II

Swinger resorts are our favorite destinations. There is nothing like having some drinks while sitting naked in the hot tub with a bunch of other swingers. You will not believe the fun that you will see and do.

Unfortunately, there are no Vermont swinger resorts available. If you really want to have this kind of experience, there are some options available. You can always travel to swinger resorts in other states or you can set up your own experience by inviting friends to a local nudist resort.

There are a couple of naturist nudist spots in Vermont. These are not swinger spots by any stretch of the imagination. Any public sexual activity will get you kicked out. But you can use these spots to meet up with friends and just play behind closed doors.

Many will use an online service like SLS (SwingLifestyle) to make some new friends and then meet up at a nudist resort. If you are interested in what Vermont has for nudist resorts, check out Nude Beaches and Resorts in Vermont.

If you are seriously interested in checking out some real first-class swinger resorts, the easiest and best way for Vermont swingers is to grab a flight to Florida and check out the incredible Florida swinger resorts.

Vermont Swinger Groups

A great alternative to Vermont swinger clubs and Vermont swinger resorts would be Vermont swinger groups. Unfortunately, these groups have gone dormant in recent years. The best options available would be to look into the swinger groups in the neighboring states of Massachusetts and New York.

These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or takeover whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.

Major Online Sites for Vermont Swingers

There are two major online sites that Vermont swingers should be checking out if they want to seriously get involved in the swinger scene. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder).

Both of these sites are free to join and check out. By becoming active in these sites, you can connect with other local swingers to find out what is going on.

SLS is probably the most popular site and AFF is probably the more visual site. I would recommend SLS more for making swinger event connections.

SLS (SwingLifeStyle)

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SwingLifeStyle.com

SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for Vermont swingers. There is just a ton of information available on the site. You can search for local events and search for local swingers. There is just a ton of information here.

This is the website where most Vermont swingers and Vermont swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members going to these events ahead of time.

This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is basically a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.

Adult Friend Finder

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Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not at meeting others at events or clubs. I much prefer SLS (SwingLifestyle) but some really love AFF.

Users tend to post a lot more pictures on AFF but I find that the SLS users tend to play fewer games than AFF users. But it is a matter of personal preference. AFF is free to join but you have to pay to upgrade and use the messaging features.

Men’s Swinger Concerns

You will find a ton of articles out there addressing the concerns of women about enjoying the swinger lifestyle but very few about the concerns of men. I remember the concerns that I had before entering the lifestyle and how little information I found about how to seriously treat these concerns.

So whether you are looking at making your first visits to Vermont swinger clubs, Vermont swinger resorts, or even events by Vermont swinger groups, you should address your concerns.

Fears of Seeing your Partner with Another Man

Ok, this is a big one. We all have that fear of what if she just enjoys it too much. What if she decides that I am inferior to someone else or that I am just not that good?

We all have these fears initially but as men, we just put too much into it. For women as well as men, being turned on is more about the mental aspects than the physical aspects. So her enjoyment will have more to do with the situation than with the other man.

What she will remember is that you had the confidence and concern about her enjoyment that let her have the fun. Do not let your jealousy or self-doubt get in the way of her enjoyment. If you can do this, she will associate her enjoyment with you.

If you can’t do this then maybe the swinging lifestyle is not for you. Being a swinger is more about bringing pleasure to others than bringing pleasure to yourself.

Erection Quality and the Swinger Lifestyle

A really big thing that really bothered me before joining the swinger lifestyle was erection quality. I suffered from fairly severe erectile dysfunction and I was not comfortable becoming a swinger when I was such a poor performer in my eyes.

First of all, you can be a successful swinger even with poor erection quality. It is common for couples to be soft swap only (meaning no penetrative sex). We all know that oral sex can be the best experience and that there are tons of new things to explore without having to get a firm erection.

That being said poor erection quality can be a major problem. It can indicate other serious health conditions, so be sure to see a doctor as it could save your life. Additionally, I know from personal experience that erectile dysfunction takes a huge mental toll on a man.

I could not get over this in order to enjoy the swinger lifestyle. I knew that my wife would love me no matter what but I couldn’t mentally deal with the thought of her getting nailed by another guy while I couldn’t even get it up.

I tried everything to treat my erectile dysfunction including prescription pills, supplements, and even prescription injections (ouch!!) with little success. When I was about to give up, I finally discovered acoustic wave therapy with the Phoenix device.

This device utilizes patented FDA-registered tech and it just worked for me when everything else had failed. If you want to have amazing quality erections again, don’t give up without trying the Phoenix. It gave me the confidence to embrace the swinger lifestyle.

Penis Size and the Swinge Lifestyle

Another big concern that men have is that they will not measure up to other men when it comes to penis size. First of all, men put way too much thought and worry into the penis size issue. That being said, I am not going to be like everyone else and just dismiss the issue. It can be a valid concern on the part of men and it is unfair to just say don’t worry about it.

Most women do not put penis size at the top of their lists when picking a sexual partner. They are usually much more concerned with looks, physique, sense of humor, and overall personality. But studies have shown that penis size is a factor for many women when picking sexual partners.

Additionally, if you start participating in the swinger lifestyle, what you encounter is probably not going to make you feel better about your penis size. To find out more about this check out the article Penis Size at Nudist Resorts for more information.

You have two options if you have these worries about penis size. The first and best option is to just try to get over it. It is not a major factor for most women and your partner is not going to leave you for a bigger penis. Your self-confidence is much more important than a huge penis.

If you can’t get over it, there is actually a way to increase your penis size. No matter what anyone says, this has been proven in scientific research papers. This is not through the use of magic pills, lotions, or any other quick and easy fix.

The use of penis traction devices is the only way that works but it takes time and effort. To be clear, you will not double your size of anything close to that. If you put in months of effort, you may gain about an inch of length and some girth.

To find out more about penis traction devices be sure to read Do Penis Traction Devices work? This article contains information about the devices, scientific studies about the devices, and my personal results using the devices.