My wife and I have had fun at swinger spots across the country. We have had a wonderful time checking out these spots including those in Virginia. That leads to the question, what is available for Virginia swinger clubs and Virginia swinger resorts?
In general, there are very few options available for Virginia swingers. There are no Virginia swinger clubs or swinger resorts but there are a few swinger groups. These groups will be your best opportunity to connect with others in the swinger lifestyle.
So let’s take a look at what is available for Virginia swingers. We will look at Virginia swinger groups and the best options for swinger clubs and resorts. If you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note To Male Virginia Swingers section.
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Virginia Swinger Clubs
Unfortunately, there are no regularly operating Virginia swinger clubs. This is too bad because swinger clubs are a great way to spend time with other swingers in your local area. We love going to clubs and making new friends then using the on-site playrooms to play with those new friends.
Virginia swingers can get some of the swinger club feel by visiting the events that are put on by Virginia swinger groups. These groups will put on swinger events that have dancefloors, meet and greets, and swinger playrooms.
You can also travel to some neighboring states that have some great swinger clubs. You can check out the clubs in Maryland, West Virginia, Tennessee, Kentucky, and North Carolina.
Virginia Swinger Resorts
We love spending time at swinger resorts and it is how we actually got started in the swinger lifestyle. We love swinger clubs but sitting naked in the hot tub at a swinger resort with a drink in our hand is still our favorite thing to do.
Unfortunately, there are no Virginia swinger resorts available. We recommend that you take a trip at some point to visit a swinger resort outside of Virginia. You will be amazed. We just love the clothing-optional aspect of the swinger resorts. It just helps everyone to loosen up and drop their inhibitions.
For the best selection of swinger lifestyle resorts in the USA, head down south to check out the Top 5 Florida Swinger Resorts. These are some of the best swinger resorts in the country. If you want to check out the best swinger resort, you can check out Hedonism in Jamaica.
Another alternative to Virginia swinger resorts is to check out some of the local nudist resorts. These resorts do not allow for overt sexual activity at the resorts. But we have on occasion met up with other swingers at nudist resorts and played in private.
If you are interested in any local nudist resorts, you can check out Virginia Nude Beaches and Resorts. We still prefer swinger resorts but these nudist resorts will do in a pinch.
Virginia Swinger Groups
With the lack of Virginia swinger clubs and Virginia swinger resorts, the role of Virginia swinger groups become even more important to Virginia swingers. These groups put on lifestyle events throughout the state.
These events usually involve the group taking over either a whole hotel or a floor of a hotel and having swinger events there. They will usually have meet and greet events, a night time themed dance, and a few hotel rooms set aside as playrooms.
A great resource when trying to make connections with these groups is to utilize SLS (SwingLifestyle). This is the website where most of these groups list their upcoming events.
The best part of using SLS is that you can sign up as attending a Virginia swinger group event and check out who else on SLS is attending that event. This lets you message other swingers that are going and make some connections before you even arrive for the event. This can really help move things along.
Virginia Friends
Richmond, VA
https://vafriendsonline.com/
Virginia Friends is a Virginia swinger group that specializes in hotel takeover events in the Richmond area. This can be a great way to connect with local Virginia swingers. Their events are for couples and single ladies.
A typical cost for couples to attend one of their events is in the $60 -$70 range. You can make an affordable weekend of it by doing the hotel package for most of their events. If you do that you can get the event ticket and an overnight room for under $200.
This is a great way to experience the swinger lifestyle in Virginia.
Interracial/International Couples and People Who Love Them
Dale City, VA
http://www.126044774866949457.com/
This is a Virginia swinger group that puts on house parties. The stated goal of this group is to be “open to all couples and females who are open to the idea of meeting and interacting with Interracial/International Couples. This is an inclusive group, not an exclusive group.”
You can find contact information and event information on SLS (SwingLifestyle). They have events every two to three weeks.
Hampton Roads Hookup
Yorktown, VA
http://hamptonroadshookup.com/
Hampton Roads Hookup is a Virginia swinger group that has hotel takeover events and other events in the Virginia area. Their events seem to be very reasonably priced. As an example, their 2022 New Years’ Eve event was $124 for the hotel room and a $55/couple event fee when you RSVP on SLS (SwingLifestyle).
Central Virginia Swingers
Richmond, VA
https://www.cvaswingers.com/
This Virginia swingers group put on a local meet and greet for local swingers. They describe their group as “Our group is designed for HWP, professional couples with ages ranging from their 20s to their 60s. We host private monthly meet & greets in an upscale location.”
They post their events on SLS (SwingLifestyle) in the hot dates section (make sure your location is set to somewhere in the Richmond, VA area). Listed events have contact information on SLS to find out more about the actual events.
DMV SWINGER SOCIAL CLUB
Tysons Corner Center, VA
https://www.dmvswingersocialclub.com/
This Virginia swingers group has events in Virginia and Maryland. These events are usually themed partial hotel takeovers.
SWINGSOCIAL
Alexandria, VA
https://swingsocialevents.co/
This Virginia swinger group puts on themed club events. They list as being in Virginia but most events seem to take place in DC and Maryland.
Meeting Up With Virginia Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that Virginia swingers use to meet up with other swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). These sites are even more essential in meeting up with other swingers in a state like Virginia that doesn’t have swinger clubs and resorts.
Virginia swingers can use these sites to help make swinger connections in a couple of ways. What we actually do is make some connections ahead of time before going to a Virginia swinger group event. This helps to increase our chances of finding a nice compatible couple when we go to the resort or club.
The other way is to use the sites to make connections with individual swinger couples that you can meet one on one. We have done this many times and have had some great fun doing this. Remember to be smart and always meet in public spots and be smart but with a little common sense, you will meet some incredible swingers.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for club and resort events. This is the website where Virginia swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.
Important Note To Male Virginia Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
1. Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
If you have any concerns about erection quality, check out this article on at-home acoustic wave therapy. The Hollywood elite has used this type of revolutionary treatment for years. The Phoenix Device let me get rock-hard erections that gave me the confidence for the swinger lifestyle.
Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.