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Maryland Swinger Clubs and Resorts: Fun play with new friends

Maryland Swinger Clubs and Swinger Resort

My wife and I have had fun at swinger spots across the country. We have had a wonderful time checking out these spots including some fun spots in Maryland. That leads to the question, what is available for Maryland swinger clubs and Maryland swinger resorts?

In general, Maryland has a decent selection of swinger clubs for a relatively small state. Unfortunately, there are no Maryland swinger resorts but there are plenty of easy travel options from Maryland. The location of this state gives Maryland swingers plenty to choose from within driving distance.

So let’s take a look at what is available for Maryland swingers. We will look at Maryland swinger clubs, Maryland swinger resort options, and swinger groups. If you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Important Note To Male Maryland Swingers section.

Maryland Swinger Clubs and Resorts Table

The table below contains a listing of Maryland swinger clubs and Maryland swinger resorts:

NameLocationType
Tabu Social ClubCatonsville, MD Swinger Club
The Private Affair (TPA)Port Deposit, MDSwinger Club
Shadows Private ClubHyattsville, MDSwinger Club
Maryland Swinger Clubs and Resorts Table

There are a few options when it comes to Maryland swinger clubs. This is great because we find that swinger clubs are a great way to check out the lifestyle.

Swinger clubs are very low-pressure so you can go and check things out without feeling that you have to do something. You can go out for the evening to have a few drinks, dance, and just see what the vibe of the club is like.

You can see what others are doing and make a decision about if it is what you want to do. If you find it exciting, you can jump right in or have fun. If you are still unsure, no one is going to make you do anything and you can go home and think it over.

Our favorite spots to go are the swinger resorts but unfortunately, there are no Maryland swinger resorts. You still have options for this so be sure to check out the Maryland swinger resort section for what to do if you want to check out one of these spots.

Another great way to experience the swinger lifestyle is to check out some Maryland swinger groups. These groups put on some great events that can provide great opportunities to meet other Maryland swingers.

Maryland Swinger Clubs

Maryland swinger clubs

Maryland swingers are lucky to have some great Maryland swinger clubs to check out. This is just a great way to meet local swingers and have some fun.

Most of these clubs are BYOB due to alcohol licensing restrictions but this lets you save a ton of money when you go out for the evening.

Many Maryland swingers can also find some great swinger club options close by in Pennsylvania or West Virginia.

Tabu Social Club

Tabu Social Club

1115 Rolling Rd.,
Catonsville, MD 21228
(410) 869-0001
https://tabulife.com/

Tabu Social Club is a member-only Maryland swinger club for those that are 21+. This club is open to couples, single females, and sponsored males.

Tabu Social Club is open on Fridays from 9 pm to 2 am and on Saturdays from 9 pm to 3 am.

Club amenities include a great dancefloor, quiet seating areas, stripper poles, a dance cage, a ladies-only stage, VIP suites, lockers, showers, towels, and much more.

We absolutely love this type of club. You meet so many local swinger couples and there are opportunities to play right on-site.

This is a BYOB club that does provide ice and mixers for your drinks. They have a full-service bar that can serve your alcohol back to you as a mixed drink. This can be a huge saving for you on a night out. We will often go out for a whole night and just tip the bartender $20. Very inexpensive when compared to a regular bar bill.

Membership is easily applied for online on the Tabu Social Club website or at the door for couples and single females only. The membership rates are the same for couples, single females, and sponsored males. These rates are $80/year, $60/six months, $45/three months, or $30/month.

Tabu social club event listing
An example of Tabu Club events from SLS (SwingLifestyle)

Event pricing varies depending on the event. Friday events are usually $45-$50 for couples, $20-$25 for single ladies, and $55-$65 for sponsored males. Saturday events are usually $80-$85 for couples, $35-$40 for single ladies, and $85-$95 for sponsored males.

Unlike many swinger clubs, Tabu Social Club accepts credit cards in addition to cash.

A big saving for Maryland swingers going to Tabu Social Club is available to members of SLS (SwingLifestyle). They offer special discounts for SLS members plus you are able to make connections with other clubgoers prior to going to the club.

The Private Affair (TPA)

Maryland Swinger Club TPA
TPA dancefloor photo from https://www.theprivateaffair.com/

255 Linton Run Rd,
Port Deposit, MD 21904
(410) 378-8948
https://www.theprivateaffair.com/

The Private Affair is a members-only Maryland swingers club that is open to couples, single ladies, and single men that are 21+. This club is located on a fenced-in property and has a lot of amenities that you traditionally only find at swinger resorts.

The Private Affair is open on Fridays from 9 pm to 2 am and on Saturdays from 8 pm to 2 am. This Maryland swingers club has an incredibly loyal following and is a must-visit for swingers in Maryland.

This is a BYOB club with professional bartenders that will serve you alcohol back to you. They provide free ice, cups, and mixers for your beverages. This can save you a ton of cash on a night out and can more than makeup for the higher entry fee of a club like this.

TPA amenities include a large dancefloor, stripper pole, dancing cage, free lockers, buffet on some nights, pool tables, socializing areas, 25 themed playrooms, glory hole, gyno chair, sex table, pool, hot tub, towels, and more.

We love this concept for a Maryland swingers club. Our favorite thing is hanging out naked in the hot tub with some other swinger couples. This just leads to an incredibly sexy atmosphere. Before you know it you can be off in one of the playrooms.

You can complete the membership application right online at their website. Once your membership is approved, you will receive some emails including one with your temporary membership number. This is your ticket to show up at an event. You will pay your membership and event fees at the door.

Membership fees for couples, single ladies, and single males are the same and they are $25/month or $65/year per membership. The actual event pricing varies based on the event but is pretty reasonable based on what you get.

This club lists all of its upcoming events on SLS (SwingLifestyle). You can also use SLS to see who is planning on attending the club for these events and make some connections ahead of time.

Shadows Private Club

shadows club events
An example of Shadows Private Club events from SLS (SwingLifestyle)

2504 50th Ave,
Hyattsville, MD 20781
(202) 798-2843
https://shadowslove.com/

Shadows Private Club is a Maryland swinger club that is located in the DC area. This is a members-only swinger lifestyle club that is open to couples, single ladies, and single men that are 21+. On Saturdays, single men are extremely limited to just 10 members other nights are open.

This club is open on Wednesday thru Friday from 9 pm to 3 am, Saturday from 9 pm to 4 am, and Sunday from 8:30 pm to 2:30 am.

This is a BYOB club that has bartenders that will serve your alcohol back to you. This can save you a ton of money on your nights out. You just bring your alcohol in with you and they label it for you. They will then be able to mix drinks for you with free mixers and ice.

This club has a large dancefloor, stripper poles, and private playrooms to spend time with your new friends. We have had great fun in private playrooms at clubs. We love to spend the early evening making new friends and then hopefully going as a group to one of the playrooms.

Membership can be done right at the door. You can start an application online but will still need to finish at the door. Membership rates for couples are $15/day, $60/six months, or $100/year. Membership rates for single ladies are $5/day, $30/six months, or $50/year. Membership rates for single men are $15/day, $80/six months, or $150/year.

Event fees on most Wednesdays, Thursdays, and Sundays are $60 for couples, free for single ladies, and $60 for single men. On most Fridays, event fees are $50 for couples, free for single ladies, and $70 for single men. On most Saturdays, event fees are $60 for couples, $10 for single ladies, and $150 for single men.

This club lists all of its upcoming events on SLS (SwingLifestyle). You can also use SLS to see who is planning on attending the club for these events and make some connections ahead of time.

Maryland Swinger Resorts

Maryland swinger resorts

We love spending time at swinger resorts and it is how we actually got started in the swinger lifestyle. We love swinger clubs but sitting naked in the hot tub at a swinger resort with a drink in our hand is still our favorite thing to do.

Unfortunately, there are no Maryland swinger resorts available. We recommend that you take a trip at some point to visit a swinger resort outside of Maryland. You will be amazed. We just love the clothing-optional aspect of the swinger resorts. It just helps everyone to loosen up and drop their inhibitions.

For the best selection of swinger lifestyle resorts in the USA, head down south to check out the Top 5 Florida Swinger Resorts. These are some of the best swinger resorts in the country. If you want to check out the best swinger resort, you can check out Hedonism in Jamaica.

Another alternative to Maryland swinger resorts is to check out some of the local nudist resorts. These resorts do not allow for overt sexual activity at the resorts. But we have on occasion met up with other swingers at nudist resorts and played in private.

If you are interested in any local nudist resorts, you can check out Maryland Nude Beaches and Resorts. We still prefer swinger resorts but these nudist resorts will do in a pinch.

Maryland Swinger Groups

Maryland swinger groups

Maryland swinger groups offer some great opportunities for Maryland swingers to meet up with other local swingers. These groups will often host takeover events that will turn a vanilla hotel or nightclub into a swinger resort or swinger club for a couple of days.

We highly recommend checking out these events as we have had excellent luck at hooking up with couples at these events.

FrictionMaryland

Friction Maryland
An example of FrictionMaryland event from SLS (SwingLifestyle)

Linthicum, MD  
https://frictionparties.com/

FrictionMaryland is a Maryland swinger group that puts on some great hotel takeover events. These events can be a great way to meet and have fun with local Maryland swingers.

The great part of hotel takeovers is that there is no concern about getting a ride home from the event if you have a few adult beverages as you are staying right there. It sort of makes the hotel into a temporary swinger resort (usually with a lot less nudity but not always that way).

This swinger group lists all of its upcoming events on SLS (SwingLifestyle). You can also use SLS to see who is planning on attending these events and make some connections ahead of time.

Twist & Curves Baltimore

Baltimore, MD
https://www.tcbbbw.org/

Twist & Curves Baltimore is a Maryland swinger group that is dedicated to plus-size women and those that admire them. This group does club takeovers. Their events are usually held at The Private Affair (TPA). These events can be a lot of fun.

This swinger group lists all of its upcoming events on SLS (SwingLifestyle). You can also use SLS to see who is planning on attending these events and make some connections ahead of time.

Meeting Up With Maryland Swingers

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There are a couple of online sites that Maryland swingers use to meet up with other swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). These sites are even more essential in meeting up with other swingers in a state like Maryland if travel is an issue and you don’t live near one of the clubs.

Maryland swingers can use these sites to help make swinger connections in a couple of ways. What we actually do is make some connections ahead of time before going to a Maryland swinger group event. This helps to increase our chances of finding a nice compatible couple when we go to the resort or club.

The other way is to use the sites to make connections with individual swinger couples that you can meet one on one. We have done this many times and have had some great fun doing this. Remember to be smart and always meet in public spots and be smart but with a little common sense, you will meet some incredible swingers.

SLS (SwingLifeStyle)

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SwingLifeStyle.com

SwingLifeStyle.com

SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for club and resort events. This is the website where Maryland swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.

This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.

Adult Friend Finder

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http://adultfriendfinder.com/

Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not toward meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.

Important Note To Male Maryland Swingers

When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.

1. Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle

Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.

If you have any concerns about erection quality, check out this article on at-home acoustic wave therapy. The Hollywood elite has used this type of revolutionary treatment for years. The Phoenix Device let me get rock-hard erections that gave me the confidence for the swinger lifestyle.

Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle

Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.

Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).

The Swinger Inferiority Fear

This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?

Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.